I understand... I live in Oakland also... where does your brother live? that must be hard driving 1 hour away just to work on it... I know I was getting frustrated when I had to fix my aunt's van and she lives 30-40 min away from where I lived. It took about a month until I actually finished the car (needed a new motor). I had to drive back and forth from Oakland to Antioch every time I have a day off work or school. Also, I understand about the girlfriend and money situation... I was building my honda and it took awhile until i can gather up the money... Building the motor wasn't that bad, with eagle rods, low comp. pistons, etc... I still manage to bring my girlfriend out to dinner and stuff. but when it came to selecting out the turbos, man i had to go with the cheapest and smallest... My original plan was to use a t3/to4e .57 trim or a super 60. but i ended up with a .42 .48...lol and it isn't fully tuned....