V8_DatZun Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 i know no one really wants to hear my personal problems... but some of you who are into cars may have the same problem im facing today or you may eventually have it! my fiance and i get along ok.. we have our days as every couple does where we argue a little.. im the type person put it behind me the next day start out new... in short... she is not. we have a 1 1/2 yr old son that means the world to me.. he loves losing my tools and beating up the side of the zx with wrenches thinking he's helping daddy out. he's just... perfect. the past couple weeks my fiance has been in the worse mood. we got taxes back.. she told me GET THE Zx RUNNING for SEZ. i've been trying.. but then i get chewed out for spending time on the car... its a losing battle.. this morning she dropped me off at work and had some smart comment... i just got out the truck.. didnt tell her or my son goodbye. well i tried to call her all day at work.. no answer. tried to call her at home.. no answer.. i go outside at 2:30 for her to pick me up.. shes not there but my truck is. EMPTY at that.. no her.. no baby.. no car seat. i knew what the deal was.. get home.. only a few clothes are gone but everything else is still here. no note, nothing. the FREAKIN DAY BEFORE VALENTINES DAY!! it hurts bad... im ALWAYS with my son.. 2:30 till bedtime. she gets here at his bedtime.. and she just took him w/o a word.. sure she may be planning on coming back but.. what the hell... thats my kid she has and in my mind THATS KIDNAPPING i dont even know where she has him. i cant help to think that my Zx project somehow had something to do with today and if she does come back and we get back together.. i just dont know about the zx anymore.... and i dont know why but it makes me feel a little better to just write all this crap on here... sorry for the post guys. just dont know what else to do... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
typhoone Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 sorry to hear that dude. i've never had that problem simply because I don't argue. it isn't worth the wasted time to me. if my girl gets pissed about something oh well, if she is mad she'll get over it. I go on about my business until she calms down Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V8_DatZun Posted February 13, 2007 Author Share Posted February 13, 2007 lol its funny one of the few times i did that (this morning) and this happens.. just tryin to keep my mind off it... maybe she just feels like she needs a break.. hell... maybe i do too. dont feel like workin on the car tho... so i dont think anything will get done to it for a while... life is like a Z or ZX... throws ya sh** you never expected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jnjdragracing Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 Sorry to read about this, I hope it all works out for you. There will be other SEZ's and other cars down the road. It sounds like to me this has been boiling for sometime now for her to just leave without a word. If it all works out then still plan on coming to SEZ, bring her and the child with you, just leave the car at home. Maybe she will see what you were missing and understand maybe not. Good luck to you. John Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
240zV8 Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 women are very unstable creatures.... It's worth doing everything you can to fix it though, for ur son's sake. It's funny coming from me because i'm bad at it, but communicate with her and tell her how much she means in ur life and take it from there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AK-Z Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 You 2 known each other for over what over 1 1/2 years now. I don't think she would just leave without leaving a note, unless she is that type of person. I don'y know. I try not to act apon assumptions (its ok to make them though, just not act apon them). Usually, when my gf gets mad AT me, it takes me a little while to figure out whats going on. I try to look at the situation from different angles. Luckily I am usually right (but when i get it wrong. migth as well give me a shovel). My gf usually just balls me in with the other problems of her day(or weeks, or months). So I understand and she understands how thick headed I am and takes me a little time to understand the situation. We don't even really argue, or at least I don't. I know I could never win. But later on I poke jabs at she only if its funny (to her). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V8_DatZun Posted February 15, 2007 Author Share Posted February 15, 2007 well she said she just needs a little time to get her head together.. she DOES want me to finish the car.. she said work and everything just stressed her out too much.. she spent the nite w/me for v-day which was nice.. guess we both might need a little time to think about stuff and maybe i need time to work on the car too.. finish it up since im so close.. just gotta work out a few bugs so i can get the engine broke in. so atleast shes comin back.. lol makes me feel a little better.. and she said if the car is running we're gonna go to SEZ. hope to see you guys there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbk240z Posted February 16, 2007 Share Posted February 16, 2007 Good for you, I am glad to hear things are working out for you. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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