So I found out the green light on the ECU, isn't lighting up. So my guess is no power...? So I have some connectors on the harness (close to where the plugs are for the ecu) that I either saw little or no explanation of, and i have included them here...
First: this "T" connector i didn't see anything in the swap thread, this is the first plug following the harness from the ecu to the firewall,
Next: this connector I believe I was told goes to the fuel pump relay? anyway, I didn't have the harness that goes to the fuel pump relay, so I have set up the fuel pump relay and connected everything according to a diagram someone made me, and the pump works fine. but I'm not sure if there is something within this connector that is suppose to go to 12v source, Ground, etc.
here is the connector, its the last connector (following the harness from the ecu to the engine bay) before the grommet: