Lol, I certainly can't leave a crying baby on the internet. I'll take a look at my diagrams when I get home. I'm fairly certain I have that T connector just dangling. If you haven't already done it I would turn the key on and back probe the ECU connectors to make sure you're getting power to the pins that are supposed to have power... use a ground on the connector instead of a body ground just in case you have a bad ground to the harness. You might first want to do a quick probe of the EFI relay connector to make sure it's giving the harness power when the key is turned on.