1. Generalisations in general (sic) are stupid, but I like being called an Aussie so I guess I'll overlook a POME's stupidity. J/K Yank, POME, Aussie, Kiwi, Jap, whatever, no skin off my nose but I don't speak for everyone. As a new member I would think you'd be more tentative and a little more sensitive to potentially offending people.
2. Things will only be assumed if you neglect to mention them. A few words to the effect of: `I searched but couldn't find what I wanted', would've avoided this problem.
3. Welcome.
Dave