Adam, typically you do not want to have such big swings in your VE #'s as this indicates your IOT and TOG are not set correctly. Let us say your VE at full boost and high rpm is .5 and you run a TOG of 8. In order not to have such big changes in your VE values you should change your TOG value to 8+[.5 x 8]=12. In your case it would be 8+[.35 x 8]=10.8. I typically just set my TOG to about 11 or so. You should also have the firing set to alternating divide by 1. Now, you should not be having to take out 35% at idle either. Set the TOG to 11 and clear the VE table. With the VE table zero'd lower the IOT until it gets your idle close. BTW, you can have negative values for IOT and mine is currently to about -1.375. With the newly set IOT and TOG values your VE table should have much smaller changes from idle to WOT. Although you can use big corrections as you have, +/- 35% it is not the best method.
Anyway, this does not cure your idle issue. There is nothing wrong with idling the car at 18:1 if the car idles well at 18:1. My car will idle and cruise at 16:1-17:1 all day long. From what I have seen with OEM cars they sit in the 15.5:1-16:1 when idling and cruising. Here is a good question, how much vacuum are you getting at idle with this cam?