I know how you feel, I really do, I lost my Girlfriend over my Z after almost a 2 year relationship, I was spending to much time with the car and ignoring her. I gave up a cell phone to pay insurance and my social life for time... I started working more hours so I could buy more parts and if ti isnt raining out Im working on my car... if it is raining Im on the computer planning to work on my car. dont get me wrong Im not a looser, I have friends, but no time for them, and when Im with them I am always talking about my Z... sometimes its annoying but I cant do anything about it. not to mention Ive stained every jacket I own working on my Z, I just jump right in every chance I get, and I havnt even started the rebuild on my new engine!