NO, don't do anything with your FIDLE wire, it will not be used.
Just connect the AAR so that it gets voltage when the car is started. It will heat up on its own from the coolant that flows throught it, plus the internal electric heater.
This will give you more airflow while the engine is coming up to temp, exactly what you want. Then just tune you warmup enrichment table in megatune.
That is all, it is a nice simple solution. I used it on my car and it worked very well. Don't confuse after start enrichment with warmup enrichment. After start if just for the few seconds when you first fire a completely cold engine. The pistons immediately heat up and then ASE decays away in a few seconds, but warmup continues to provide more fuel up to around 160 degrees.