1. Not sure
2. The wiring of the car is completely up to you, as long as it's done I have my car completely rewired for the system. I used the rs-autosports kit and the MS relay board. Pretty much the only connectors that you get to work with are the one that connect to the pieces, such as the injector connectors, sensor connectors, etc.
WHen it comes to the throttle body.. I believe you need a variable sensor instead of a switch type.. meaning not the stock TB and prolly a 240sx one. Someone may correct me on this.
3. The MS is obviously connected to a DB-27 computer connection, which means you can't really use ony of the stock harness connectors.