Damn, my dad wouldnt even do things like that for me if I didnt gather all the information research and do most the work myself, thankgod for this site, you sound like a great father to help your wifes son out, but I too would not give him a chance when he has no desire to do the work and research. Kinda like my brother, he has his 58' olds in my dads shop and expects my dad to pay his employees to work on it, then he comes every day to see if anymore work got done on it, its people like this that shouldnt have project cars.
On the sad side for us, no more of these great stories, but I bet you feel good about not having to hear his crap again.
John