It seems to be a rare trait for todays men to acutally look up to and respect their fathers. My brother inlaw acts as if his dad was slime most of the time, Now my father inlaw is no angel, pretty disfunctional family, but he's not really all that bad!.
I've always wanted to have my dads patience, As kids my mom would say he gave lessons to Job, the bibilical character! I had a conversation with my mom a few months back about all the things I've gone through in my marriage, disfunctional Inlaws living next door, work and other stress. When I made the comment that I hoped I would have the patience that dad had and my mom laughed and said I was way past that and working on Sainthood! How do you answer that kind of statement?