Oil test kits as used by fleet services will tell when your oil needs to be changed. The oil change intervals are usually much longer then most folks think. BTW... when was the last time anyone heard of an oil related failure. Not from lack of oil, but from oil breakdown.
Back when I was a software engineer one of my fellow employees would lease a new Ford Taurus every two years. He did nothing, and I mean nothing, to that car for two years and 30,000 miles. Other then putting gas in the car and washing it every month, he didn't do a thing - he never even opened the hood or took it to an oil change place. When the windshield washer bottle ran out of the factory fill, he didn't bother to fill it back up. He treated the car as an appliance, went through four cars in eight years, and never had a problem with any of them.