DaleMX Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 I met a woman tonight that I really enjoyed being with, infact we were together for 5 hours today and it felt like we were really connecting. Conversation was very natural and very enjoyable. Then we ended up talking on the phone for 2 more hours and it seemed like 10 minutes. Ever done this before? Where did it lead? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savageskaterkid Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 still stuck with her......j/k, kinda, I am still with her, its only been close to a year, but then again, I'm a kid, so thats forever. About 1/20th of my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_hunt Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Run like hell, before it's too late. Just kidding. Some things in life are wonderfull. If it's real, it'll last, remember that before you run out and buy a ring. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbk240z Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Take it slow and enjoy! One important question, does she like Z cars? just kidding, good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaime240z Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Hey man it sounds like a good day! Like the others have said take your time and get to know her, it sounds like you're on the right path now. But be sure to finish stages 2.5 through 5 before you get too deep and the car gets put on the back burner. Not that I'm speeking from experience or anything ...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotSuperBbutZ Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 wtf does this have to do with Datsuns???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbk240z Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 But be sure to finish stages 2.5 through 5 before you get too deep and the car gets put on the back burner. Not that I'm speeking from experience or anything ...... I have been there, done that, 2 times even.........I know, I know, I was pw'd! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbk240z Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 wtf does this have to do with Datsuns???? Don't be a D&%@! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparks280zt Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Most important here.........does she mind the exhaust smell in the cabin??? Seriously though....take it slow and good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redruM_0381 Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 wtf does this have to do with Datsuns???? It doesnt.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mario_82_ZXT Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 wtf does this have to do with Datsuns???? It would've been funnier if it was in the Chevy V8 section. That section always seems to get the "different" threads.... Anyways, though I can relate I'm too young to be thinking of something so serious.... but more power to ya! Mario Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaleMX Posted July 9, 2006 Author Share Posted July 9, 2006 She's taken the driving course at Road Atlanta, likes motorcycles and cars. I was impressed. She was made in Japan, raised and lived in Ireland and has been stateside for about 4 years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OlderThanMe Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 sounds like a good "hybrid" (LOL) to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charles Patterson Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Yeah, I had this happen once married her three years later that was twelve years ago and many children. she still helps me on my z's and likes fast cars. Enjoy this time and don't rush things. If it's a good match you will know in time. Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheNeedForZ Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 She sounds like a keeper, try not to mess it up sounds like a good "hybrid" (LOL) to me heh,good one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zero Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Yea, I've had that happen. Definately take it slow and enjoy the early moments. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veritech-z Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 So does she have that hot irish accent? I met a vietnamese girl from texas once, and that was so distracting to hear her voice sounding like Scarlett O'hara from the side, and then turning to look and seeing Ms. Saigon...I say rock it till the wheels fall off guy, but just so you know: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alsil Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 I met a woman tonight that I really enjoyed being with, infact we were together for 5 hours today and it felt like we were really connecting. Conversation was very natural and very enjoyable. Then we ended up talking on the phone for 2 more hours and it seemed like 10 minutes. Ever done this before? Where did it lead? Yes, I married her and we've been together for 15 years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparky Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Its real, and congratulations on your experience. It's happened to me twice, the first time we were obsessed with each other and lost sight of our own personalities and life goals (admittedly we were both young and had lots to learn about life) as we started to lose ourselves in each other the relationship fell part, probably because of our conflicting desires to both stay together and yet be apart to fulfill our personal agendas. second time is more recent, and even though we are dating, we've been very honest with each other and know that the timing is all wrong and it probably wont really last. We are still going at it though simply because it feels good, in terms of emotional comfort and the honesty that we are able to bring forth into the "friendship." We both have goals and experiences that we need to have in order to become successful and well rounded human beings in career and relationship. I'm a person that feels that if you dont truly know yourself that you cant be true in a meaningful honest relationship with another human. I base this on a multitude of past failures and unnecessary artificial anguish. Each person will react a different way to such things, just try not to be come addicted. (ever witnessed what heroin or cocaine will do to a person?) We humans are social animals and as such need and desire physical and emotional support...when we get such a powerful dose it can be overwhelming. I cant really offer advice because I'm a distant observer with no real insight into yours or her life. take it slow or take it fast, whatever you like, whatever you think or feel is right. part of the excitement and fun is the speed at which the seemingly impossible happen. but like roller coasters there are all different shapes and sizes of experience...some long, some short, some rocky, some rolly some will even make you puke. honesty is always the best policy, until she asks about her new haircut. don't allow you or herself to sacrifice too many personal goals and ambitions for each other. while its fine now and then, doing it too much can lead to some not so good feelings (its a cumulative effect.) chose your battles wisely, getting into an argument about which way the T.P. roll faces is bad form. compromise, acceptance. relationships are like well set up suspensions, you should shoot for a near 50/50 weight distribution. So anyway, too much info I know, its hot outside and i'm procrastinating, but to answer your rhetorical question yes it can be real. Are you ready for it? From you brief description see sounds like an amazing woman...congratulations are in order yet again. /Use as directed //results may vary ///side effects may include nausea, dizziness, chest pains, sudden expulsion of fluid from the ocular cavity, loss of appetite, negative monetary reserves, desire to stay in bed, random outbursts of laughter, and happiness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jt1 Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 I fell in love with a girl the first time I met her. 3 1/2 yrs later we got married, recently celebrated our 12th anniversary, and I'm still in love with her. So it can be real, just take it slow and get to know each other before you talk about marriage. And post up some pics!!!!!!! John Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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