I need to see a picture of the hole. I bet you can drill out the corner of the car to align it with the manifold. Where in Cali are you? Maybe I can swing by and give you a hand. Welding and retapping/drilling the manifold would not be worth the money, they are cheap to buy new. I have had this problem with a holley setup once before. My case wasnt quite as bad, and I was able to gently "force" my carb on.
It would be easy to mess up the carb or the manifold, so take your time and be gentle. Buying a spacer or adapter wont help you any, cause you are gonna have the same problem with the bolt spacing.