I was going to put washers on the outer ends of the spindle pin, but I think the inside is OK, like you said. My understanding is com-12 is just a size designation, I'm pretty sure the 5/8" monoballs like those used in my camber plates are com-10.
I don't think that these are going to fail and cause a crash or anything, I just think that they need to be lubed to move smoothly, and since I don't have an easy lubing mechanism installed and don't want to have to install one and then constantly lube these, I'm going to try and finds some good quality teflon lined monoballs.
I still have a really hard time picking them out though. I could spend $80 each on these things if I wanted to. I know the ones I'm using on the front control arms are still very tight after years of service, and they are these here: http://www.stockcarproducts.com/rodend3.htm
On the other hand the monoballs in my camber plates haven't held up for ♥♥♥♥, even though I bought the most expensive ones the bearing supply place could get there hands on. Maybe they just sold me crap, I don't know. If it was crap, it was very expensive crap...