My point is only that it is not about us, it is about them... and them only.
You can adopt out of fostering.
I get leery around comments of desire of ones own self in regards to any individual, young or old.
I love kids tremendusly, yet that just me, what I can do for them on the other hand is,,,,priceless.
Btw, building a princess,,, not a good idea.
Jbk240z, you might be a very fine individual that can bring great joy in a otherwise dim future for a child. I do not know this because I do not know you. In cases of such importance I believe that pming a couple of admins that seem geared to such matters would have be better than an open forum.
If decisions are made for the correct reasons, than God bless you and your family. I mean that. Peace.