I watched a girl (coming back from her honeynoon with her husband) die in front of me on a motorcycle. They had a blow out about 10 feet in front of my car on the beltway around Richmond going back to Norfolk through Frederick on 95. I almost ran over them both in my Triumph. But she died right there while I was trying to help. I sold my Suzuki 850 after that ( I was getting married that month.). It really upset me, I have never seen so much blood and gore. I was doing 85 when they passed and pulled in front of me. I hope no one has to go through that. Its so much different than watching a movie. I have 2 teenagers a 20 yr old son and a 16 yr old daughter. She gets upset when I won't let her pile into a car with other high school kids to go into Charlotte. I tell her I don't care! How is that sister going to feel for the rest of her life. I have always told that to my son and his friends before they leave in a car. "How could you look anyone in the eye after you killed someone by being stupid". My daughter calls me a hypercrat, she knows I was stupid with cars and bikes when I was young. I tell her I don't care, call me what you want, you still aren't going. I will load them all in the crew max and take them. This last weekend her and her 16 yr old girl friend were wanting to go into Charlotte for a Cosmetology convension, she couldn't understand why my wife and I were concerned. "But we are 16 Dad!" EXACTLY!
I have been there, sorry you had to go through it.