Mike, I've fought the same problem. The best thing to do is clean the block and intake with solvent, then lay down a thick bead of silicone and install the intake. The gaskets are junk.
Due to casting variances, sometimes the mating surface right around the dist is pretty narrow. Lay the intake on the engine dry with the port gaskets in place, and observe the gap between the intake and block. The bead of silicone needs to be roughly twice as thick as the gap to get a good job. Sometimes I lay down one bead, let it tack, then put a second right on top to get it thick enough. When you install the intake, be sure to look down the dist hole and check that none of the silicone squished out enough to interfere with the dist. Smooth it with a finger if it does.
Good to see you getting close. My build is lagging.
jt