I have lived as an adult in Charlotte, Gastonia and Hickory NC, Austin and El Paso TX, Albuquerque NM and Atlanta GA.
Living in El Paso was great - close to mountains, High Desert climate - less humidity that Phoenix AZ and no State Income Tax.
Albuquerque was more expensive to live in than El Paso, anmd the food wasn't as good.
I live in Tlanta now, but grew up here.
I have visited Houston in October, and there is no way I would even VISIT in the summer.
I was a party animal when living in NC and don't remember much of it....But El PAso had it beat for standard of living for sure.