I read all the sentences in your posts.
I guess racing for almost ten years using the buttons as I describe them doesn't count for much. The buttons have worked fine for me, Bryan Lampe (past Cal Club ITS champ), John Williamson (past Cal Club BSP champ), and many other 240Z racers here on the west coast. Shoot, we even sometimes run the diff side stub axles just pushed in without any bolt or clip if we run out of time swapping diffs between sessions or are helping another racer out by loaning them our diff. Diff might get a little greasy, but we never had a halfshaft pop out. But hey, what do we know.
Do whatever you want, I was just offering some advice and I wasn't trying convince you one way or the other.