Well, Doc and Zforce, thanks for the advice. I guess I could lay out some of the backstory. I'm 26, and my parents got divorced when I was at a young age. We moved to Tampa from DeLand at that time to stay with my mother's parents, and she eventually remarried. He was still in the picture for a few years, but then it kind of trickled and then just stopped one day. Life went on for me, but my sister (one year older, and just hitting high school by then) really took it hard. My mom's new husband is a great guy. I was the best man at their wedding, and he was the best man at my wedding. We get along great, except that he's a showroom stock kind of guy, and I'm a member of Hybridz. The trouble is that my mom likes to drink a lot, and she liked to fight with my sister. So really it's my sister that was looking back to the good old days more than me, because she's had it so much harder than I have.
My parents originally divorced because my dad couldn't stay sober, and I guess he's finally come clean in a 12 step this year. When I came back from my honeymoon last October, I had a letter in my stack of mail that was from him, and that was the first anybody had heard from him since we were kids. I gave it to my sister, because I wasn't really ready for it, and she wrote him back. I was thinking along the lines of 280zforce: at BEST we would have a pen pal type relationship, at worst it could be chaotic, and I was just getting stable as a newlywed with a new job.
And now today: I and my wife met with my sister and her husband, and we met with this guy at a restaraunt. He was really cool, just like I remembered him to be. It made me glad that he didnt' turn out to be a jerk or anything. I'm not really sure what's it's going to end up like, but I'm glad I did it. He's got a girlfriend of 10 years, and a 5 year old son who both seem like they really want to meet my sister and I. He owns his own business in the Ft. Lauderdale area that relocates large trees for people, and they just recently moved the largest live tree that's ever been moved, so I thought that was pretty cool. Anyway, it seems like it was a good idea to go. I know this is kind of heavy for the non-tech forum, but I had to talk to somebody. Thanks for listening!