Porn can affect differnt people in different ways. I believe you cant encourge the use of pron, cause your the parent. My assumtion would be warn about the bad affects of porn, but go easy on masterbation. If he has the idea in his head porn can harm him it will give him a tool to monitor his own behavior. The problem I have today is that woman are so aggresive guys almost dont have a chance! That being said, I dont have a clue what to tell my son when he gets into woman. Guess ill just have to raise him with good selfcontrol hummm. Is that his natual mom? Is she super hot, dress provocitly? Had to ask cuse if that is her underware might have to seek perfessonal help. AND, sorry, mommy good person? Kids are soooo important to me there is are very little taboo questions you can ask. That was very kind of 383, i believe there is not a better group of guys to ask these question of! P.S. I am practing Catholic, good job on keeping this non reilgious I am soo looking forward to hearing some of the older family men's view on this subject. Fathers and there sons. Peace.