Nav, I understand about the spending... My wife just wants to make everyone happy so she tries to give everyone she makes eye contact with a gift!! Plus we don't have kids so she directs that energy (and cash) at 3 already spoiled rotten nephews..LOL As far as friends go, both hers and mine have all moved away in the last year so it has been weird this year not having cookouts and gamenights... Were not much for church and not hardcore party people either so its hard to find others to hang out with at our age.. I'm 40, she's a tad younger... Maybe we can get some of this Z bunch in NC together sometime...