Another update...
I replaced the stock fuel filter w/ a remote filter and also ran a temporary fuel pressure gauge into the car. I checked my fuel pressure and it was ~38psi, so I adjusted it back to where it should have been @ 43psi. I took the car for a drive and low and behold, fuel pressure rose under boost until ~7-8 lbs of boost or 50-52 psi on the fuel pressure gauge and then it plummeted down to 38, while still under boost !!
Now, I have narrowed the problem down to a fuel pressure problem. I am picking up a Walbro 255 high pressure pump this week to replace the old 95 psi Bosch pump I have on the car (which came off of an old 280zxt parts car) and see if it corrects the problem. If not, then the Aeromotive FPR must be the culprit, but the fuel pump upgrade is a necessary thing anyway, so that'll be first.