Tuning nissan ecu's is an open book, there are no secrets, everything is explained at a number of websites. Take a look at nistune. It will do everything you want to do. You could talk to Jeffp about his, I think it might be available soon if not already. I am assuming that you have a laptop or two kicking around.
That said, I think there is no reason not to spend 200 or so on a bigger junkyard turbo. Mine was around there, and with the difference in weight you have the potential to run 10's.