IMHO, HybridZ is an advanced automotive forum. We're not Cars 101 and we're not a social networking site. A new member must come here with a good understanding of automobiles and mechanics which he/she can get from any number of other sites. If they don't have that base, then they should NOT post and just read, read, read.
We have a New Member forum where people can introduce themselves and get a welcome of some kind. After that, you better start paying attention and thinking before you post. I don't care if we have 500 or 5,000 members. If someone gets their feelings hurt or doesn't feel welcome, tough luck. Life ain't fair and you need to toughen up to be able to deal with it.