Check out a dude named 'SATAN' on this board and z31performance, he makes custom manifolds ranging from a relocation pipe, to a log style manifold, to full on tubular manifolds. He also makes intake manifolds and fuel rails. If I had 5k to spend, at least 2 of that would be with him.
Hook up Nistune if you're looking for an easy cheap and capable engine management system. Turbo is your choice, depends on what your goals are.
What sort of maintenance have you done lately? I'd do the full timing belt job (belt, tensioner, stud, cam seals, crank seals, water pump etc) If you're planning on reving high go with some schneider valve springs.
What about suspension bits?