Oh no. Like I said, there is not a chance I would live in an HOA neighborhood. However, I get why they are there, and if you (or anyone else) don't want to follow their rules, why live there? You would just be causing unnecessary stress, on both your end, and their end. I have never seen the point of making life harder for other people. If you're just going to cause problems for people who WANT to live that way, just move and leave them alone.
However, that doesn't mean I don't want to live in a nice neighborhood. I don't want to look at other people's trash, because it looks like crap. I don't enjoy eye sores, so as you might expect, I would like to avoid them. Generally trash = bad neighborhood, and nice, up kept houses = good neighborhood. Or option C) Live in the in country where neighbors aren't a problem No HOA fees either, no neighbors to complain, etc. Sounds good to me.
Example though: My two friend's parent's houses. They are neighbors. One of them has a nice house, most of it is renovated, all of it is kept nice and pretty, freshly painted, lawn cut, gardens in order, cars parked where they should be, trash cans taken in, etc, etc. The other is the opposite. Ugly fence, front of house is sort of, kind of maintained, but not really, because it's brick and there's not much to maintain. There is still trash that the trash people wouldn't take LITERALLY from last summer (2009). Cars parked on the lawn, making ruts, stained driveway (sorry, but it does look really bad), garage doors broken/halfway open/crooked, with junk pouring out of it, vines going wild wherever they please, etc. That's a brief description. And those are the kind of people that I cannot stand, and probably why HOAs exist. It's extremely inconsiderate to have your property looking like that when you have neighbors that DO care.