If I recall correctly, there's a 5- or 6-pin plug in the center top of the firewall in the engine compartment. The prongs can get corroded or the plug itself can even come loose. Try checking that connection and cleaning the prongs.
And yes, the wiper relay is mounted on the right side of the passenger foot well (along with several other relays).
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